Loving You is so easy but..?

The most hardest thing to govern is the heart. That is the most difficult part i have to do to forget someone i love. We love each other but we can't have and belong to each other. Falling in love for some people are easy. Some relationship just take 2 month and than proceed to settledown. In the other hand, the relationship has reached 10 years but when they get married only lasting for 2 months. Why? I have yet to get married. So, i do not know how is married life experiences. Anyone of you who have that experience can share to other? For me, learning is a knowledge to know something that we do not know instead of be a liar, pretender and stupid!