Carilah di ceruk mana pun, kawan sejati sukar dicari. Yang pandai mengayat, talam dua muka, manis dibibir tetapi menyumpah dihati, berlambak kat Central Market ke, Chow Kit Rd, Jalan Tunku Abdul Rahman, India Street kat Kuching...fuh!!! tak yah cari, dekat ngan kita pun susah nak percaya.
Pun begitu, keluarga sendiri, sepupu dan saudara - mara sendiri walau dia orang mengumpat sampai gigi tua tanggal teruk sekali pun, dia orang tetap bertegur sapa dan kekadang apa yang dia orang cakap menyedarkan kita akan 'alam dunia sebenar-benarnya ini'.
Kawan umpama Musuh Dalam Selimut sentiasa mencari kesalahan kita, manakala kawan di sana sering melambai-lambai duka-lara kita di masa lalu. Pun begitu, keluarga kita juga yang sering berada di sisi kita walau buruk sekali kesalahan yang kita lakukan, kemaafan sentiasa terbuka luas, meskipun pintu neraka sudah mengetuk-ngetuk pintu... melambai mesra menyambut kedatangan kita, menghukum kita dengan apa yang telah dilakukan, ...keluarga kita juga yang saggup menarik kita keluar dari neraka jahanam..
Persoalannya, adakah kawan 'kamceng' sukar dicari masa kini? Teringat masa kecik dulu kat sekolah rendah, kawan berlambak bak pisang goreng panas, bagai cendawan tumbuh lepas hujan semalam... tetapi kini, masing-masing ada kehidupan sendiri... tinggal aku yang masih single... sukar nak meluahkan masalah yang sama waktu dengannya.. barangkali melayan kesibukan anak-anak dan suami, masa dulu berubah dalam sekelip mata.
Aku sering membezakan kawan dekat dan kawan jauh. Umpama lambaian daun kelapa di tepi pantai, menari melenggok-lengok apabila angin meniup sepoi-sepoi bahasa, bak cerita 'Che Timah Lenggang' di RTM2, lakonan AZean Irdawati dan Maimunah, walaupun cerita alam senja tapi menarik kerana ceritanya menarik tentang dua orang kawan rapat tetapi akhirnya, kawan sejati yang telah bersumpah sehidup semati,merampas teman lelakinya.
Kawan jauh jarang menyakiti hati kita namun, kawan dekat tetap dihati walaupun bukan kawan sejati. Sekurang-kurangnya mereka boleh diajak 'mesyuarat tingkap', meeting kejap je hanya untuk diajak bergelak-sakan. Tak lebih dari itu. Cuma bezanya, kawan jauh boleh diluahkan segala rahsia masalah kita berbanding kawan dekat yang 'mulut tempayan', keburukan kita ditokok-tambah tapi keburukan dia disimpan dalam tempayan. Tapi, suatu hari nanti, dah terlalu busuk dalam tempayan pun orang akan tercium bau jugak. Kawan dekat bagiku hanya sekadar untuk berteduh tatkala hujan turun lebat, bila reda kembali menyakiti hati kita. Tapi di depan menuji kita bagai nak rak!! Menyampah!!!
Kawan VS lawan! Lawan kita sebenarnya datang dari diri kita. Masalah datang dan pergi, kita yang cari. Tapi kawan tetap kawan. Mungkinkah, kawan sejati sukar dicari pada zaman moden serba lengkap dunia ICT, globalisasi.. tanpa sempadan merentasi dunia oh!! dunia... ke benua antartika, menyeberangi lautan pasifik-artik...di situ, sukar dipercayai... orang tersayang rupanya jauh di sana...
Ha... moralnya di sini...seksa bercinta orang jauh... bila rindu je, peluk teddy bare..patung leppard lah, bermain dengan anak buah Damien & Natalie (4 yrs & 3 yrs), jalan-jalan beli sweet, Alamak...my dear sorry..too much talking.
Nov 14, 2008
Nov 5, 2008
Kenyah Festival
An Inaugural Sarawak Kenyah Cultural Festival will be held at the City Council Football Field in Miri from the 18nd of this month. Its Organising Chairman, Marcus Gau Lian said the festival aimed to unite among Kenyah in Sarawak, enhance and preserve the unique and colourful Kenyah culture tradition as well as its artifacts.
The three-day festival with the theme, 'The Spirit, Pride and Patriotism of Usun Apau' will shocase Kenyah culture as in dance, song, music, art and handicraft. Deputy Minister of International Trade and Industry cum a Member of Parliament for Baram , Datuk Jacob Dungau Sagan will officiate at the closing dinner.
Various activities had been lineup. Among them are the launching of Kenyah National Association (PKKS) Education Fund, 'live' sape music performance, various Kenyah Cultural and Kenyah traditional games competitions and Kenyah 'storytelling'. There will be Kenyah stalls selling a variety of delicacies traditional food.
The highlight of the dinner will be the Kenyah Beauty Contest to crown the most beautiful Kenyah lady for the title of 'Bungan'. Those interested to join and further details can contact Marcus himseft at 016-852-7645 or Councillor Simpson Lenjau at 016-874-1997
The three-day festival with the theme, 'The Spirit, Pride and Patriotism of Usun Apau' will shocase Kenyah culture as in dance, song, music, art and handicraft. Deputy Minister of International Trade and Industry cum a Member of Parliament for Baram , Datuk Jacob Dungau Sagan will officiate at the closing dinner.
Various activities had been lineup. Among them are the launching of Kenyah National Association (PKKS) Education Fund, 'live' sape music performance, various Kenyah Cultural and Kenyah traditional games competitions and Kenyah 'storytelling'. There will be Kenyah stalls selling a variety of delicacies traditional food.
The highlight of the dinner will be the Kenyah Beauty Contest to crown the most beautiful Kenyah lady for the title of 'Bungan'. Those interested to join and further details can contact Marcus himseft at 016-852-7645 or Councillor Simpson Lenjau at 016-874-1997
Adakah Cinta itu Buta?
Mungkinkah mulai saat ini, blog kuini telah menjadi teman sejatiku! teman ynag sentiasa mendengar rintihan dan keluhan hati tanpa ada sesiapa yang tahu walaupun ada orang tersayang dalam hidup kita. Yang nyata, tiada sesiapa pun yang memahami diri kita melainkan kita sendiri.
Terlalu banyak cerita diperkata, ditayang di pawagam sebagai hero & heroin dalam filem, 'Romeo & Juliet' satu kisah cinta yang sukar diperjelaskan dalam setiap gerak-geri dan kata-kata kita. Namun, tetap menjadi bualan orang, adakah 'cinta itu buta' di mata setiap insan yang amat memerlukan kasih sayang, samada dari orang yang hadir dalam hidup kita atau ibubapa kita atau ahli keluarga kita yang lain?
Misalnya, setiap kali kita memerlukan orang disisi kita, setiap kali itu juga ada-ada sahaja yang tidak kena! Setiap kali hendak melangkah, gerak kaki payah nak menghayun... Cerita 'lama' terbangun kembali dari tidurnya setelah terbenam di dasar laut. Apa pun, terpaksa berdepan dengannya. Hanya hati sahaja yang sakit kerana 'luka kambuh kembali' oleh sikap ketidak perikemanusiaan sesetengah insan yang sengaja mahu melihat kita 'tersungkur' buat selama-lamanya.
Bagiku, meskipun mempunyai teman-teman yang jauh, dan tidak seorangpun berada di Miri, namun aku cukup beruntung kerana walau hanya lebih 2 bulan kita bersama, kenangan tetap dalam ingatan. Jika ada pun kata-kata tersinggung atau terpacul ketika berbicara, aku minta maaf dan semuanya kuanggap sebagai asam garam hidup berkawan.
Tetapi tidak di Miri, di tempatku bekerja. Aku hanya rapat dengan sepupuku dan ahli keluarga yang lain. Aku bersyukur kerana setelah apa yang berlaku, mereka tetap menyokongku dan tak putus-putus memberi nasihat walaupun 'pedih' dan 'parah' mendengar 'ceramah agama, seloka pak pandir & seangkatan dengannya, Jaki-jipang dan jainya', semuanya cukup masuk dan keluar dari telingaku.
Barangkali, selama ini aku belum pernah mengalami peristiwa 'pedih' sedemikian rupa dan SEGALA-GALANYA BANYAK MENGAJAR AKU ERTI SEBUAH KEHIDUPAN. Dan, aku juga tahu siapa kawan, siapa lawan dan siapa orang yang berada disisiku, sentiasa menyokongku dan berkongsi pahit manis kepayahan yang dilalui.
...Adakah Cinta itu Buta? Saya rasa, bukan cinta yang buta. Jika kita tidak mengenal erti cinta, bagaimana kita harus belajar menyayangi seseorang? Or do married restore it? Cinta itu buta kerana diri kita sendiri. Barangkali, bagi mereka yang belum pernah mengalami krisis cinta, susah le...den nak cerito..ewah!!aku belajar dialek Coweng Nogori Sombilan, Kak Juriyati... Tapi, bila difikir-fikir balik, Oiiiii!!!Kengkawanku, kalau bercinta nanti, share-share le story ngan aku. Bukan apa, sekadar nak mengumpul buat koleksi masa silam...kalau tak cukup, tak sodap lauk den, takde bicin dengan garam....
Terlalu banyak cerita diperkata, ditayang di pawagam sebagai hero & heroin dalam filem, 'Romeo & Juliet' satu kisah cinta yang sukar diperjelaskan dalam setiap gerak-geri dan kata-kata kita. Namun, tetap menjadi bualan orang, adakah 'cinta itu buta' di mata setiap insan yang amat memerlukan kasih sayang, samada dari orang yang hadir dalam hidup kita atau ibubapa kita atau ahli keluarga kita yang lain?
Misalnya, setiap kali kita memerlukan orang disisi kita, setiap kali itu juga ada-ada sahaja yang tidak kena! Setiap kali hendak melangkah, gerak kaki payah nak menghayun... Cerita 'lama' terbangun kembali dari tidurnya setelah terbenam di dasar laut. Apa pun, terpaksa berdepan dengannya. Hanya hati sahaja yang sakit kerana 'luka kambuh kembali' oleh sikap ketidak perikemanusiaan sesetengah insan yang sengaja mahu melihat kita 'tersungkur' buat selama-lamanya.
Bagiku, meskipun mempunyai teman-teman yang jauh, dan tidak seorangpun berada di Miri, namun aku cukup beruntung kerana walau hanya lebih 2 bulan kita bersama, kenangan tetap dalam ingatan. Jika ada pun kata-kata tersinggung atau terpacul ketika berbicara, aku minta maaf dan semuanya kuanggap sebagai asam garam hidup berkawan.
Tetapi tidak di Miri, di tempatku bekerja. Aku hanya rapat dengan sepupuku dan ahli keluarga yang lain. Aku bersyukur kerana setelah apa yang berlaku, mereka tetap menyokongku dan tak putus-putus memberi nasihat walaupun 'pedih' dan 'parah' mendengar 'ceramah agama, seloka pak pandir & seangkatan dengannya, Jaki-jipang dan jainya', semuanya cukup masuk dan keluar dari telingaku.
Barangkali, selama ini aku belum pernah mengalami peristiwa 'pedih' sedemikian rupa dan SEGALA-GALANYA BANYAK MENGAJAR AKU ERTI SEBUAH KEHIDUPAN. Dan, aku juga tahu siapa kawan, siapa lawan dan siapa orang yang berada disisiku, sentiasa menyokongku dan berkongsi pahit manis kepayahan yang dilalui.
...Adakah Cinta itu Buta? Saya rasa, bukan cinta yang buta. Jika kita tidak mengenal erti cinta, bagaimana kita harus belajar menyayangi seseorang? Or do married restore it? Cinta itu buta kerana diri kita sendiri. Barangkali, bagi mereka yang belum pernah mengalami krisis cinta, susah le...den nak cerito..ewah!!aku belajar dialek Coweng Nogori Sombilan, Kak Juriyati... Tapi, bila difikir-fikir balik, Oiiiii!!!Kengkawanku, kalau bercinta nanti, share-share le story ngan aku. Bukan apa, sekadar nak mengumpul buat koleksi masa silam...kalau tak cukup, tak sodap lauk den, takde bicin dengan garam....
Nov 3, 2008
Do Women Make Many Mistakes than Men
Dearest My friends, anywhere...and everwhere...
Maybe not, maybe yes! For some reason, i will say yes, for myself. But not all the time. Other women too!. I dont want to say anything about men as we know that their world are very far different from women! Anyhow, anywhere, although he is belong to you, there is certain things you can't understand about your men. But remember, in certain reason, we are definitely known-well our own man. It should be or not, depending in how we judge them in what they done or not done yet!
I must admit it that i am too make so many mistakes. Last week for example, i can't control my anger cos my 'old' story reopen again. Deep in my heart, i was still wondering until now, that why do she was very busy and gossipp about me as i never border about her life. I Never 'disturbing her personal life'. Maybe in what our mother always remind and advised in her experience life story is always true that 'we can't stop people from talking but we can stop them by giving them a 'lesson'so that it would not happen to other. At least when we doing it, we can save so many innocent people that she create bad thing about her/his?
After i finish my assignment, my mind was thinking on how she dare and influence others to do teh same thing to me until they also 'join her group of gossip', and at the same time, the group is always 'hot topic' to talk. I still wondering too as she is consider a religious person? Do you do bad thing to other if you are the person who always follow the tagline of your 'gods rule, regulation and abide his laws?
My dear women friends,
Not all of us are doing the same mistakes in the same time and days. Some not!. Some do!. No matter how good your are but every women never left behind when gossiped is like 'goreng pisang panas?' or 'hot bananas'sold in the market like, Chow Kit, Jalan Tunku Abdul Rahman.or India street in Kuching city?.. Maybe, we can categorised them as No. 1, egoistic, No. 2, hypocrite, and No.3, hypocritical. This people will never get any lesson until they falling down one day and can't stand in their feet again, then they will realise, who are them in this wild world. By that time, we will know who is strong! who is your enemies! Or who is your friends.
Repend, ask ourself. But the best things is trying to forget and to forgot everything after what she done to you is quite difficult for me especially when the person always hurt you in his/her devil/jerk words everytime she get opportunities to do it.
So far, at the moment i still can be patience and i dont know how long i can do it, i just let the time to decide. For me, no matter how good or bad people do to you, let the 'GODS' decide who will go to 'heaven' or 'hell'. Maybe in his mind now, he was accounting in what i have said or in what i have done wrong to him. I will not say about it as i can only say, 'I AM ONLY A HUMAN BEING. NOT A PERFECT HUMAN BEING!!.
Maybe not, maybe yes! For some reason, i will say yes, for myself. But not all the time. Other women too!. I dont want to say anything about men as we know that their world are very far different from women! Anyhow, anywhere, although he is belong to you, there is certain things you can't understand about your men. But remember, in certain reason, we are definitely known-well our own man. It should be or not, depending in how we judge them in what they done or not done yet!
I must admit it that i am too make so many mistakes. Last week for example, i can't control my anger cos my 'old' story reopen again. Deep in my heart, i was still wondering until now, that why do she was very busy and gossipp about me as i never border about her life. I Never 'disturbing her personal life'. Maybe in what our mother always remind and advised in her experience life story is always true that 'we can't stop people from talking but we can stop them by giving them a 'lesson'so that it would not happen to other. At least when we doing it, we can save so many innocent people that she create bad thing about her/his?
After i finish my assignment, my mind was thinking on how she dare and influence others to do teh same thing to me until they also 'join her group of gossip', and at the same time, the group is always 'hot topic' to talk. I still wondering too as she is consider a religious person? Do you do bad thing to other if you are the person who always follow the tagline of your 'gods rule, regulation and abide his laws?
My dear women friends,
Not all of us are doing the same mistakes in the same time and days. Some not!. Some do!. No matter how good your are but every women never left behind when gossiped is like 'goreng pisang panas?' or 'hot bananas'sold in the market like, Chow Kit, Jalan Tunku Abdul Rahman.or India street in Kuching city?.. Maybe, we can categorised them as No. 1, egoistic, No. 2, hypocrite, and No.3, hypocritical. This people will never get any lesson until they falling down one day and can't stand in their feet again, then they will realise, who are them in this wild world. By that time, we will know who is strong! who is your enemies! Or who is your friends.
Repend, ask ourself. But the best things is trying to forget and to forgot everything after what she done to you is quite difficult for me especially when the person always hurt you in his/her devil/jerk words everytime she get opportunities to do it.
So far, at the moment i still can be patience and i dont know how long i can do it, i just let the time to decide. For me, no matter how good or bad people do to you, let the 'GODS' decide who will go to 'heaven' or 'hell'. Maybe in his mind now, he was accounting in what i have said or in what i have done wrong to him. I will not say about it as i can only say, 'I AM ONLY A HUMAN BEING. NOT A PERFECT HUMAN BEING!!.
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