Terlalu lama aku tidak menjenguk teratak buruk tapi indah 'blogku ini. Setiap hari, tugasan yang digalas sebagai pemberita, dah tu, Bandaraya Miri sentiasa dikejar samada Menteri kerajaan Negeri Sarawak atau Kerajaan Pusat, diadakan program mereka. Ketika tulisan ini kucoret, 15 minit lagi nak pukul 12 tengah malam. Belum balik ke rumah sebab buat 'news' radio untuk esok pagi.
Kepada semua teman-temanku, aku rindu kalian semua. Tapi, setiap hari tangan dan kakiku memaksa aku sukar menjenguh blog. Busy gila beb!!! Ok, kita sambung esko ya..
Jul 11, 2009
Mar 24, 2009
Antara Takdir vs Jodoh
Bagiku, apa sahaja yang berlaku, ada hikmah 'besar' yang berlaku disebaliknya. Malah, setelah apa yang berlaku, setelah apa yang dirancang 'tidak menjadi lagi', aku percaya, 'tuhan itu adil'. Adil kerana dia tidak mahu aku menderita di kemudian hari. Apa pun yang terjadi, aku tetap seperti dulu dengan prinsip hidupku, 'biar apa orang kata tentang diriku, asalkan aku tidak mengganggu hidupnya, mengata tentangnya' atau pendek kata, 'busy body', biarlah. Asalkan aku gembira dengan apa yang ada sekarang, dan seharusnya aku patut bersyukur kerana aku punya pekerjaan dengan keluarga yang amat memahami diriku.
Aku tahu, sesetengah pihak tidak menyukaiku. Entahlah. Setahu aku, aku tak pernah menyinggung perasaan mereka tetapi, namanya 'perempuan sesama perempuan' lebih sikit sudah dikata, diumpat. Ah, biarlah. Biarlah mereka bergelumbang dengan dunia mereka, asalkan aku bahagia dengan apa yang kumiliki masa kini, meskipun 'HATIKU', kembali 'kosong' setelah aku mengambil keputusan untuk tidak meneruskan perkahwinan dengan 'sidia', yang kuanggap 'putera raja', rupanya 'jauh panggang dari api'.
Bagiku, jodoh pertemuan tuhan yang tentukan. walaupun aku orang yang 'telah lama' tidak mengamalkan amalan keagamaan, aduh!!! ni yang payah nak cakap!!! dah terlanjur cakap, cakap ajele..... Tapi dihatiku, aku tetap seperti dulu, Marian yang dulu. Cuma yang berubah, penampilan sudah berubah kerana 'rambut panjang',....barangkali kot!!!
Ha...moralnya di sini, jika aku lama tak jengah blog, maap kawan-kawan, terlalu 'sibuk memanjang' sehingga terlupa...Dadada...... bye..bye/..c u next time...
Aku tahu, sesetengah pihak tidak menyukaiku. Entahlah. Setahu aku, aku tak pernah menyinggung perasaan mereka tetapi, namanya 'perempuan sesama perempuan' lebih sikit sudah dikata, diumpat. Ah, biarlah. Biarlah mereka bergelumbang dengan dunia mereka, asalkan aku bahagia dengan apa yang kumiliki masa kini, meskipun 'HATIKU', kembali 'kosong' setelah aku mengambil keputusan untuk tidak meneruskan perkahwinan dengan 'sidia', yang kuanggap 'putera raja', rupanya 'jauh panggang dari api'.
Bagiku, jodoh pertemuan tuhan yang tentukan. walaupun aku orang yang 'telah lama' tidak mengamalkan amalan keagamaan, aduh!!! ni yang payah nak cakap!!! dah terlanjur cakap, cakap ajele..... Tapi dihatiku, aku tetap seperti dulu, Marian yang dulu. Cuma yang berubah, penampilan sudah berubah kerana 'rambut panjang',....barangkali kot!!!
Ha...moralnya di sini, jika aku lama tak jengah blog, maap kawan-kawan, terlalu 'sibuk memanjang' sehingga terlupa...Dadada...... bye..bye/..c u next time...
Mapping Works-Hillslope
Mapping of federal roads on hillslope and housing projects along hillsides in Sabah and Sarawak will be carried out next year.
The Director of Slope Engineering Division of the Public Works Department, Dato Dr. Ashaari Mohamad says priority will be given to high risk areas before extending to other areas.
He was speaking to RTM after attending a Seminar on National Slope Master Plan and Public Awareness in Miri today.
He said mapping works on federal roads and housing projects along hillslopes in Semenanjung Malaysia started last year as expected to be completed in two years time.
The mapping works was neccessary for the implementation of the National Slope Master Plan which among others emphasised on safety measures for development projects in hillslope areas.
The Director of Slope Engineering Division of the Public Works Department, Dato Dr. Ashaari Mohamad says priority will be given to high risk areas before extending to other areas.
He was speaking to RTM after attending a Seminar on National Slope Master Plan and Public Awareness in Miri today.
He said mapping works on federal roads and housing projects along hillslopes in Semenanjung Malaysia started last year as expected to be completed in two years time.
The mapping works was neccessary for the implementation of the National Slope Master Plan which among others emphasised on safety measures for development projects in hillslope areas.
Sarawak Travel Fair
Thirteen tourism operators in Sarawak will participate in the Sarawak Travel Fair.
The event will be held at The Mall, Gadong in Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei Darussalam from the 27th to 29th of this month.
According to the Acting Manager [Corporate Affairs] Sarawak Tourism Board, STB, Benedict Jimbau when contacted by RTM today said the participants are from tour agents and hotelier.
They are Sarawak Tourism Board, Borneo Jungle Safari, Borneo Tropical Rainforest Resort, Seridan Mulu Tour & Travel Services, Eastwood Valley Golf and Country Club, Wesberley Apartment, Mega Hotel, Journey Travel, Borneo Adventure, Imperial Hotel, Damai Rainforest Resort, Damai Golf and Country Club, Grand Margherita Hotel and Riverside Majestic Hotel.
Benedict said the purpose of such fair is to promote Sarawak as a tourism destination to the people of Brunei Darussalam.
His Excellency Dato’ Ku Jaafar Ku Shaari, High Commissioner of Malaysia in Brunei Darussalam together with the Minister of Tourism and Urbanization Development, Datuk Michael Manyin anak Jawong will officiate the opening ceremony on friday afternoon [27-3-2009].
The event was jointly organized by STB and Tourism Malaysia Brunei. Last year, Sarawak receives about 1.4 million tourist arrivals from Brunei.
The event will be held at The Mall, Gadong in Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei Darussalam from the 27th to 29th of this month.
According to the Acting Manager [Corporate Affairs] Sarawak Tourism Board, STB, Benedict Jimbau when contacted by RTM today said the participants are from tour agents and hotelier.
They are Sarawak Tourism Board, Borneo Jungle Safari, Borneo Tropical Rainforest Resort, Seridan Mulu Tour & Travel Services, Eastwood Valley Golf and Country Club, Wesberley Apartment, Mega Hotel, Journey Travel, Borneo Adventure, Imperial Hotel, Damai Rainforest Resort, Damai Golf and Country Club, Grand Margherita Hotel and Riverside Majestic Hotel.
Benedict said the purpose of such fair is to promote Sarawak as a tourism destination to the people of Brunei Darussalam.
His Excellency Dato’ Ku Jaafar Ku Shaari, High Commissioner of Malaysia in Brunei Darussalam together with the Minister of Tourism and Urbanization Development, Datuk Michael Manyin anak Jawong will officiate the opening ceremony on friday afternoon [27-3-2009].
The event was jointly organized by STB and Tourism Malaysia Brunei. Last year, Sarawak receives about 1.4 million tourist arrivals from Brunei.
Feb 18, 2009
Aduh! Terlalu Lama Menyepi....
Telefon bimbit saya hilang sebelum penghujung tahun 2008 & hilanglah nombor orang-orang terpenting, termasuklah telefon alahai....!!! wahai kengkawanku Kak Ju, Kak Zura, Juma, Ati, Effa, Ustaz Arqam, Affendi, Nurafni, Gee, Taufik & Mahathir....yang sempat dicari, Kristo, dan nasib Kak Ju call saya....
Semakin hari, kerja semakin berlambak, semakin banyakah dugaan dan cabaran hidup yang terpaksa ditempuh, diselesaikan dan menghadapinya, bukan main payah! Nak kuketawa, takut tersungkur, nak menangis, nanti dikata tidak mampu menghadapi tekanan kerja dan hidup...
Wahai kengkawan, jika aku lama tidak menulis dalam blog, aduh!!!! makin hari kerja rasa nak menjaga ...semua sekali sehingga aku terpaksa 'mencuri' & 'menceroboh' masa peribadiku untuk diriku sendiri, malah...terpaksa 'mencuri' masa yang sepatutnya 'bersama 'my lovely dear', fuh!!!! pun tak dapat. Semuanya gara-gara, komitmen kerja yang sejak kebelakangan ini jika dah 'diisi dengan air, dah penuh tempayan' mak aku. Tapi, apakan daya, ... letih & sukar nak melafazkan betapa letihnya kerjaya sebagai 'wartawan penyiaran'. Bak kata pepatah, 'hendak mencari sesuap nasi, terpaksa berhempas-pulas mencari rezeki yang ..entahlah..bila akan berakhir. Barangkali sehingga hari tua.
Jika diikutkan hati, aku lebih suka memilih menjadi 'surirumah sepenuh masa' tetapi mengenangkan betapa 'payah & susah' ibubapa kita memberi pendidikan sehingga ke menara gading, sayang juga nak duduk kat rumah...
Ha... apa yang saya nak bagitau adalah, kita beruntung sebagai seorang wanita kerana selain dikurniakan anugerah 'yang maha kuasa', & teristimewa berbanding kaum adam, huh...!!!! nasib baik mak aky beranakkan aku jadi 'baby girl'.
Apa khabar semuaaaaa......!!!!!!!!!! Saya akan menghadiri kursus 'web journalism' mulai 16-27 Mac 2009 di IPTAR. So, join mari-mari kita jumpa lagi & bersama lagi....
Semakin hari, kerja semakin berlambak, semakin banyakah dugaan dan cabaran hidup yang terpaksa ditempuh, diselesaikan dan menghadapinya, bukan main payah! Nak kuketawa, takut tersungkur, nak menangis, nanti dikata tidak mampu menghadapi tekanan kerja dan hidup...
Wahai kengkawan, jika aku lama tidak menulis dalam blog, aduh!!!! makin hari kerja rasa nak menjaga ...semua sekali sehingga aku terpaksa 'mencuri' & 'menceroboh' masa peribadiku untuk diriku sendiri, malah...terpaksa 'mencuri' masa yang sepatutnya 'bersama 'my lovely dear', fuh!!!! pun tak dapat. Semuanya gara-gara, komitmen kerja yang sejak kebelakangan ini jika dah 'diisi dengan air, dah penuh tempayan' mak aku. Tapi, apakan daya, ... letih & sukar nak melafazkan betapa letihnya kerjaya sebagai 'wartawan penyiaran'. Bak kata pepatah, 'hendak mencari sesuap nasi, terpaksa berhempas-pulas mencari rezeki yang ..entahlah..bila akan berakhir. Barangkali sehingga hari tua.
Jika diikutkan hati, aku lebih suka memilih menjadi 'surirumah sepenuh masa' tetapi mengenangkan betapa 'payah & susah' ibubapa kita memberi pendidikan sehingga ke menara gading, sayang juga nak duduk kat rumah...
Ha... apa yang saya nak bagitau adalah, kita beruntung sebagai seorang wanita kerana selain dikurniakan anugerah 'yang maha kuasa', & teristimewa berbanding kaum adam, huh...!!!! nasib baik mak aky beranakkan aku jadi 'baby girl'.
Apa khabar semuaaaaa......!!!!!!!!!! Saya akan menghadiri kursus 'web journalism' mulai 16-27 Mac 2009 di IPTAR. So, join mari-mari kita jumpa lagi & bersama lagi....
Dec 9, 2008
9 attractive qualities women look for in a guy by Rich Santos, Marie Claire on Mon Nov 24, 2008
Here are the nine characteristics we've come up with:
1. Sense of Humor: Everyone says how important sense of humor is, and I have learned look for it in women. I am lucky enough to be able to make women laugh, but I'm still super single.
2. Trustworthy: Trust is the holy grail of a relationship. It takes years to build it, and it is so delicate. There are few things that take so long to attain that can be destroyed so quickly. So a lot of us may finally settle on a very trustworthy person when we finally find that.
3. Kindness: This seems like a no-brainer, but I've seen plenty of girls stay with guys who don't treat them well. So, I'm thinking that most women look for a nice guy, but the fact of the matter is that mean guys seem to get girlfriends too-and at a better rate than nice guys.
4. Money: I admit it: I sometimes envision myself marrying rich and sitting there doing nothing. I could lie out on my wife's yacht and host lavish parties and hear about how crazy the Roaring 20's were, when my wife's friends were my age. Money is definitely high on a lot of people's list: remember when Anna Nicole Smith married that really old rich guy? I doubt it was because she thought he was hot, funny, or great in the sack.
5. Super Hot: As much as we hate to admit it, the first thing we notice about someone else is how good or bad they look. But one of the first lessons we learn in the dating world is as beautiful as someone is on the outside, they could be ugly on the inside.
6. Confident: Confidence is based on a lot of these characteristics. You are confident if you are talented, super hot, intelligent, or wealthy most likely. But confidence also enables you to treat people better, so you are kind and trustworthy as well. Because confidence includes so many of these other characteristic, it may just be the one major thing women look for in a man.
7. Talented & Passionate: When someone possesses a special skill, such as visual art or guitar virtuosity, they get tons of girls. People like Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, and Tom Brady can go out with anyone they want because they are skilled. Heck, I'd go out with them. Usually skill occurs in tandem with passion, another attractive quality. When someone is really good at something, but not "hot," it makes sense that they can still attract a lot of women. It's less annoying to see someone like this in a relationship than it is to see a rich mean guy in a relationship.
8. Intelligent: I am intimidated by women who are more intelligent than I am (which explains why I'm intimidated by about 97% of the female population). For a lot of people, intelligence is sexy. When someone is stupid, it's frustrating and boring, which is enough to drive someone away.
9. Convenient: One can argue that convenience is a huge driver for a relationship. Does he live near you, is he "ready" to be in a relationship, does he want to have kids or not? Everything matches up correctly. Sure, he may not be the best-looking guy or have a lot of money, but it's just what you need and it's been a long, difficult search.
If we put these characteristics on a pie chart, what would get the biggest piece of the pie with you? Again, some of these characteristics occur together: intelligence and wealth, talent and passion, kindness and generosity, convenience and wealth.
How often do women care about superficial things like money? It's scary, but sometimes I fear that no matter how funny I am, if I had lots of money I could date any cute girl I wanted.
How do all of these characteristics shake out for you when choosing a boyfriend, and are there any you'd add to the list? Does confidence just take all of these characteristics into consideration?......Posted by Rich
Among all this, number 5: 'Super Hot' is in my first list although i am not a pretty woman but yet, i have to tell the truth from the bottom of my heart. I dont want to be a hypocrete women whom 'hide' their bad and 'show off' their body and outside beauty. I hate of kind this people. I am not a perfect human being but yet, i am who i am, and still trying to build my trust to my love one.
I must say, i love to read any articles from this web www.shine@yahoo.com cos the writers taught me a lot of thing in life, and create awareness in me that whom i should be trusted or not.
Tapikan, kadang-kadang, kita nak yang itu, tapi lain jadinya. Kenapa apabila kita nakkan benda yang kita inginkan, benda lain yang datang. Cuma, satu persoalan yang masih mengganggu dalam benak otakku, " adakah kita tidak akan dipunyai oleh insan yang begitu kita sayang ....TETAPI... Dipunyai oleh insan lain yang begitu amat menyayangi diri kita dan menerima seadanya diri kita". Aduh....Mak...kenapalah, ini sering terjadi dalam hidup kita... tapikan, bila aku fikir-fikir balik, aku memang bertuah..lihat, kawan-kawanku yang dulunya kuanggap bahagia, tetapi rupanya 'neraka' kehidupan yang terpaksa mereka lalui saban hari dengan anak-anak yang masih kecil. Jika adapun yang bahagia tetapi kehidupan 'tidak seberapa' malah masalah 'kewangan' sering menjadi punca api pertengkaran rumahtangga. Sampai ada yang menyesal kerana kahwin muda gilak...!!!!.
Ha....saya bukannya apa tapi bila difikir-fikirkan...agak-agaknya...bilalah aku 'settle down' ni... atau lebih mesra panggilan, 'kahwin' & jadi 'mem'...alamak... tak nak jauh dari Malaysia. Aku bukannya apa. Aku boleh settle down bila-bila masa aku nak tapi aku takut aku rindu sambal belacan, mee kolok, laksa, ulam-ulaman, tom yam sup..banyak lagi.....fuh!!! kat mane aku nak dape jang oiiii>......lagi susah kalau nak cari 'manok pansoh' or ayam masak dalam buluh...
1. Sense of Humor: Everyone says how important sense of humor is, and I have learned look for it in women. I am lucky enough to be able to make women laugh, but I'm still super single.
2. Trustworthy: Trust is the holy grail of a relationship. It takes years to build it, and it is so delicate. There are few things that take so long to attain that can be destroyed so quickly. So a lot of us may finally settle on a very trustworthy person when we finally find that.
3. Kindness: This seems like a no-brainer, but I've seen plenty of girls stay with guys who don't treat them well. So, I'm thinking that most women look for a nice guy, but the fact of the matter is that mean guys seem to get girlfriends too-and at a better rate than nice guys.
4. Money: I admit it: I sometimes envision myself marrying rich and sitting there doing nothing. I could lie out on my wife's yacht and host lavish parties and hear about how crazy the Roaring 20's were, when my wife's friends were my age. Money is definitely high on a lot of people's list: remember when Anna Nicole Smith married that really old rich guy? I doubt it was because she thought he was hot, funny, or great in the sack.
5. Super Hot: As much as we hate to admit it, the first thing we notice about someone else is how good or bad they look. But one of the first lessons we learn in the dating world is as beautiful as someone is on the outside, they could be ugly on the inside.
6. Confident: Confidence is based on a lot of these characteristics. You are confident if you are talented, super hot, intelligent, or wealthy most likely. But confidence also enables you to treat people better, so you are kind and trustworthy as well. Because confidence includes so many of these other characteristic, it may just be the one major thing women look for in a man.
7. Talented & Passionate: When someone possesses a special skill, such as visual art or guitar virtuosity, they get tons of girls. People like Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, and Tom Brady can go out with anyone they want because they are skilled. Heck, I'd go out with them. Usually skill occurs in tandem with passion, another attractive quality. When someone is really good at something, but not "hot," it makes sense that they can still attract a lot of women. It's less annoying to see someone like this in a relationship than it is to see a rich mean guy in a relationship.
8. Intelligent: I am intimidated by women who are more intelligent than I am (which explains why I'm intimidated by about 97% of the female population). For a lot of people, intelligence is sexy. When someone is stupid, it's frustrating and boring, which is enough to drive someone away.
9. Convenient: One can argue that convenience is a huge driver for a relationship. Does he live near you, is he "ready" to be in a relationship, does he want to have kids or not? Everything matches up correctly. Sure, he may not be the best-looking guy or have a lot of money, but it's just what you need and it's been a long, difficult search.
If we put these characteristics on a pie chart, what would get the biggest piece of the pie with you? Again, some of these characteristics occur together: intelligence and wealth, talent and passion, kindness and generosity, convenience and wealth.
How often do women care about superficial things like money? It's scary, but sometimes I fear that no matter how funny I am, if I had lots of money I could date any cute girl I wanted.
How do all of these characteristics shake out for you when choosing a boyfriend, and are there any you'd add to the list? Does confidence just take all of these characteristics into consideration?......Posted by Rich
Among all this, number 5: 'Super Hot' is in my first list although i am not a pretty woman but yet, i have to tell the truth from the bottom of my heart. I dont want to be a hypocrete women whom 'hide' their bad and 'show off' their body and outside beauty. I hate of kind this people. I am not a perfect human being but yet, i am who i am, and still trying to build my trust to my love one.
I must say, i love to read any articles from this web www.shine@yahoo.com cos the writers taught me a lot of thing in life, and create awareness in me that whom i should be trusted or not.
Tapikan, kadang-kadang, kita nak yang itu, tapi lain jadinya. Kenapa apabila kita nakkan benda yang kita inginkan, benda lain yang datang. Cuma, satu persoalan yang masih mengganggu dalam benak otakku, " adakah kita tidak akan dipunyai oleh insan yang begitu kita sayang ....TETAPI... Dipunyai oleh insan lain yang begitu amat menyayangi diri kita dan menerima seadanya diri kita". Aduh....Mak...kenapalah, ini sering terjadi dalam hidup kita... tapikan, bila aku fikir-fikir balik, aku memang bertuah..lihat, kawan-kawanku yang dulunya kuanggap bahagia, tetapi rupanya 'neraka' kehidupan yang terpaksa mereka lalui saban hari dengan anak-anak yang masih kecil. Jika adapun yang bahagia tetapi kehidupan 'tidak seberapa' malah masalah 'kewangan' sering menjadi punca api pertengkaran rumahtangga. Sampai ada yang menyesal kerana kahwin muda gilak...!!!!.
Ha....saya bukannya apa tapi bila difikir-fikirkan...agak-agaknya...bilalah aku 'settle down' ni... atau lebih mesra panggilan, 'kahwin' & jadi 'mem'...alamak... tak nak jauh dari Malaysia. Aku bukannya apa. Aku boleh settle down bila-bila masa aku nak tapi aku takut aku rindu sambal belacan, mee kolok, laksa, ulam-ulaman, tom yam sup..banyak lagi.....fuh!!! kat mane aku nak dape jang oiiii>......lagi susah kalau nak cari 'manok pansoh' or ayam masak dalam buluh...
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